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Take advantage of the opportunity by exploring your desires and ultimately having fun with it. It's important to consider if your approach to relationships will allow you to become sexually involved and stay friends, Meyers says: "You may enter the situation going, 'I don't want commitment, wiyh is so much easier,' but the minute you start kissing, the oxytocin stars flowing and your emotions get in the way.

What do you have to lose? Rule 3: Friends with benefits must communicate. Your friend with benefits might even want the same thing!

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Possibly — until you stop ffmale consider how many of us are comfortable with being unpartnered but how few of us are willing to remain untouched. That means being super clear about what you want to get out of this arrangement. Here are some important things to keep in mind before considering a no-strings attached hookup: View Gallery 15 Photos 1 of 15 Ask yourself how you'd feel if your FWB entered a monogamous relationship.

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Make it clear in your profile what you want, then start reaching out to benefifs friends-with-benefits matches. If you or your partner feel resentment about outside hookups, the friends-with-benefits relationship might not be a great fit for your lives. Getty Images 10 of 15 Set boundaries. But again, remember the ground rules. Getty Images 8 of 15 Prep yourselves for safe sex.

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Getty Images 13 of 15 Reassess if you get jealous. You can simply say, "I don't want a relationship, but I had a fun time last night and was wondering if you'd want to keep having sex, casually.

Going the Ssxy route might be easiest if you're a lil' bit introvertedbecause you don't have to look anyone in the face and ask if they're into casual sex. For Knight, hooking up with a friend might involve trying out a new kinky kit or just fooling around. But there's a reason it never seems as easy in practice.

But as liberating as it is to have commitment-free sex, friends-with-benefits relationships can be tricky to navigate. Mature sex partners do not have the best track record when it comes to using condoms, but at least they're likelier to use them when they know very little about a partner's sexual past — or present!

When is it ok to become 'casually yours'?

Or it dor be a couple of college friends who just like to Netflix and chill on the weekends. But if the person you want to turn into a fwb is already fenale friend or acquaintance, then the conversation gets a little more complicated, Dr. Often, a friends-with-benefits sitch kicks off naturally—maybe as a random hookup that happens to go on for a few months. So weigh the risks. Getty Images 6 of 15 Pick the right friend.

Personally, I think it all comes down to a very simple choice at any age: Is enduring loneliness, celibacy and extreme horniness really a better option than exchanging a few "simple gifts" between friends? MAIL Great sex is one of the best parts of being in a relationship.

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Just like looking for a real relationshipyou can go about finding a friend with benefits or fwb, if you're trying to save syllables in one of wity ways: either online or IRL. Yes, you two are friends, meaning — presumably — that you get along and have a good time together.

It can be a breath of fresh air. This is also no time for anyone to be shy about wanting gemale needing to use lube. Stager admits that things would have gone better in her last friends-with-benefits relationship if she and her co-worker were more open about the type of connection they wanted.

Or is it okay for you to hang out as friends, too? Getty Images 7 of 15 Understand that feelings might develop.

Friends with benefits is a mixed bag. If things go south, are you okay with cutting ties from the person you want to turn into a fwb? Jealousy can creep up unexpectedly if you find out your friend is hooking up with someone else. If this is truly a FWB and not "no strings attached," you are welcome and encouraged to sustain the "friends" part of that by continuing to do whatever activity or hobby brought you together as friends in the first place.

Clover says her friends-with-benefits relationship took away the pressure of losing her virginity.

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Rule 1: Everyone must always ask for consent. We may earn commission from links on thisbut we only recommend products we love. Are you going to hook up at your femxle or theirs? Just make sure that you're clear about what you're looking for upfront, says Emily Morse, PhD, sexologist and host of the Sex With Emily podcast.

And finding some common ground beyond the bedroom will help keep the experience steamy. Every now and then, a familiar craving surfaces. Are you confined to just having solo pleasure?

But real life isn't like the movies, and if you want a sex buddy, then you're going to have to put a little effort into finding one. Not only is it important to speak up about changing needs and desires like, if one of you meets someonebut you should also talk about what you like and don't in bed — that's what this is all about, right?